i was talking to my friend the other day and he said, there’s something wrong with the way you use the word broken, the way you refer to yourself, over and over, as being such and such, broken this and that.
and it unnerved me a little bit because i did not know quite where he was going with this and he continued, you see, broken implies that you are not whole, that there are pieces that will always be missing, that there is something fundamentally wrong with the way you are right now.
i could see his point, i could see if you stretched the horizon of it even further, broken implied a certain sense of stupidity, a certain kind of culpability.
damaged on the other hand, he laughed, damaged would be right on.